ニューヨーク・タイムズさんのインスタグラム写真 - (ニューヨーク・タイムズInstagram)「For more and more of Orna Guralnik’s couples therapy patients, the ideas behind the Black Lives Matter and the #MeToo movements are leading to breakthroughs at home. In the past eight years, writes @ornaguralnik for @nytmag, “I’ve witnessed a tremendous change in the kinds of conversations couples can have. Not long ago, if I would ask a couple about the ways class or race played out between them, I’d typically be met with an awkward shrug and a change of topic. But recent events have reshaped the national conversation on power, privilege, gender norms, whiteness and systemic racism.” These insights have also made it easier for people to realize “there may be plenty of other unconscious assumptions undergirding their positions,” she writes. There has, of course, been “ferocious pushback” against many of these ideas: #MeToo, Blacks Lives Matters and trans rights have been weaponized in service of the culture wars dominating the media, according to Guralnik. “One of the most difficult challenges for couples is getting them to see beyond their own entrenched perspectives.” Guralnik writes that in her practice she “found that engaging with these progressive movements has led to deep changes in our psyches.” Tap the link in our bio to read Guralnik’s full essay for @nytmag about how she is seeing relationships change. Photo by @dina_litovsky」5月20日 0時30分